{"id":1771,"date":"2022-11-23T02:22:04","date_gmt":"2022-11-23T02:22:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/premdm\/?p=1771"},"modified":"2022-11-23T02:22:04","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T02:22:04","slug":"are-you-a-patient-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/2022\/11\/23\/are-you-a-patient-person\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Are you a patient person?<\/strong><strong><\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Written by Liting 2022 Cohort<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a personal answer to one of the New York Times Learning Network topics. For details, check <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/ca\/section\/learning\">https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/ca\/section\/learning<\/a> <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe I&#8217;m patient enough with others, but I&#8217;m not a patient person with myself. I occasionally get angry if the game loading slowly; I will give up watching if the video freezes; I also get annoyed if there are many things I didn&#8217;t finish before a deadline. But in my opinion, It might just be part of my personality, an expression of emotion in my own life; it doesn&#8217;t bother me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When was the last time you lost your patience? Tell us about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I still remember that it was a Sunday last month, and I had just finished my homework and was resting on the sofa. At this time, my mother video calls me and asks about my recent life. I briefly tell her about my current events. My mother said she hoped I could show her my apartment in this video, but I suddenly became impatient. Because I know that I also showed her in the video call last time. So I said, &#8220;It is unnecessary to show you again, right?&#8221; After I spoke, I realized my attitude was not very good. So I got up from the sofa and showed my mother where I lived again, even the neighbourhood and scenery outside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We seem to be patient with our friends, classmates, and teachers but not with our loved ones.\ud83d\ude2d<strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What are my strategies for dealing with impatience? I usually use empathy to deal with conflicts caused by impatience. For example, when that emotion arises, I will consider a win-win communication style \u2014 or setting the \u201cPause button.\u201d When I feel impatient, I will stop talking about the current topic. After my mood stabilizes, continue that topic with empathy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by Liting 2022 Cohort This is a personal answer to one of the New York Times Learning Network topics.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/2022\/11\/23\/are-you-a-patient-person\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><strong>Are you a patient person?<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1772,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[3],"class_list":["post-1771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-voices-of-our-students","tag-premdm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1771"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1773,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1771\/revisions\/1773"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.thecdm.ca\/techspeak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}